Look to the West for Moscow

Monday, September 1, 2008

Welcome To Our 1st Blog

In addition to keeping in touch with many of those we don't see on a regular basis, we also thought we would start this blog as a keepsake for our daughter.  She'll have a chronological, emotional and factual account of our journey to her.

As we've discovered over the months, an adoption is a bit more complicated than we originally thought.  Frightening at times because we have no control over it  (especially now with tensions between our countries mounting).  Russia changes its requirements almost daily it seems when it comes to the requirements of paperwork (ok, a bit of an exaggeration but you get the point). Everyone's experience there seems to be somewhat different, but nonetheless they seem to find new paperwork that needs to be done or documents that need to be updated or changed.  Those not familiar with an adoption from Russia, well...it kinda goes like this... our preference is for a girl between the ages of 2 and 4.  We would also accept siblings between the ages of 2 and 5.  With Russian adoptions there are two trips required.  Our first trip will take place when we receive "The Call" (a referral).  We will only have 3-4 weeks notice before we travel to meet her.  If all goes "ok" medically, we sign the petition of acceptance and fly home to wait for the judge to petition us to come back to court (meanwhile filling out more paperwork).  In our region, it typically takes 3 - 6 months after we arrive home from Trip 1.  Then after receiving the next call, we fly back (this time 2 - 3 weeks notice) to appear in front of a judge.  We get drilled with questions then wait for his approval.  If granted, there is a 10-day waiting period before we can take the child out of the orphanage.  However, we can visit her daily at the orphanage.  THEN, we finally get to pick her up and fly to Moscow for a few days in order to go to the US Embassy for her passport and visa to fly home.  Whew! There it is in a nutshell!

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm so proud of the two of you and cannot wait to meet my new little cousin.

Carey and Norman said...

Thanks for the comment on our blog. As you know, we finished our adoption in Vlad in March. Please read our posts from our time in Vlad and feel free to e-mail me at russianfairytale@gmail.com with any questions or comments you may have.

Good luck and many blessings as you wait!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Roger and Joanne -
I'm so excited about your blog. It sounds as though things are really moving along. Let me know if there is anything we can do.
lots of love,
Julie, Brian, Emilia, and Lucy

Anonymous said...

Can you imagine if our parents got to write a blog about having us? What a gift! I am sure that your daughter will appreciate knowing how much love and support you have from all your friends and family.
All our love,
Lauren, Michael

Cindy said...

I would be happy to share all that I've encountered in this journey as well. I'm so close to bringing my daughter home now. Best wishes on your journey!

Cindy

Anonymous said...

Tara and I are really excited for you two. You both have so much to offer a child!
-Dave

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